You are what you do, so you have to do what you want to be. We are how we spend our time.
If you want to be super good at texting and watching Netflix, you should text and watch Netflix all day—'cause you'll get really good at it.
If, in your dreams, you would rather be good at something else, then you should spend your time doing that thing. Don't wait for it to come to you.
You are how you spend your time.